Friday, August 15, 2014

Heart Broken

So it is late.  Long day, and sleep isn't coming.  Got a call from the cops today. They want to interview Chase because Lauren made more accusations that Ben is abusing him.  I know no such thing is happening.  I have monitored their situation often and talked to Chase frequently.  There is no truth to this.  It is another attempt to hurt us and to especially hurt Ben.   We have an appointment set up with them on Monday.  It will be difficult because my sister's father in law died and the funeral is that day. I am not sure I can go now as I don't know if I can make it up there and make it back in time.

The other allegations are believe it or not being taken seriously.  I can't believe they believe anything she says.  Yet they want each of my sons and my husband to give them a DNA sample.  Ben is worried.  He thinks that some way she will be able get him in trouble again.  I keep telling him she can't hurt him because truth is on his side, but then I didn't think the cops would take her allegations seriously either.  Logically I know that my children are innocent of what she accuses them, and emotionally I know it too.  I know that the evidence isn't in her favor, but I've been down this road before and it seems like a lot of times evidence doesn't count, because why would she lie?  Only because she has to a million people and a million times.  She somehow seems to convince police and judges that she is a victim.  If only they got to know her for a long time.

Ian and I discussed it tonight.  As much as it breaks my heart, Lauren will not be allowed to be in our home to live ever again.  It is too dangerous for the rest of us.    My heart really is breaking.  I love Lauren.  But I can't allow her to continue to hurt us all and she has really done so this time. I hope she finds a way to fix her life and get the help she needs, but it won't be from us.  Never, ever did I think I would have to have nothing to do with my child.  I hope God truly has a purpose for all of this because I sure am having a hard time finding it.

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